This rewrites registry.h, removing all the macros and replacing it
with relatively ordinary template classes.  The result is less code
than the previous setup.  It replaces large macros with a relatively
straightforward C++ class, and now manages its own cleanup.

The existing type-safe "key" class is replaced with the equivalent
template class.  This approach ended up requiring relatively few
changes to the users of the registry code in gdb -- code using the key
system just required a small change to the key's declaration.

All existing users of the old C-like API are now converted to use the
type-safe API.  This mostly involved changing explicit deletion
functions to be an operator() in a deleter class.

The old "save/free" two-phase process is removed, and replaced with a
single "free" phase.  No existing code used both phases.

The old "free" callbacks took a parameter for the enclosing container
object.  However, this wasn't truly needed and is removed here as
well.